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from A Jolly Affair

Arbitrary? Or not quite so?

Last Sunday, it was a story on Singaporeans’ sloppy sense of dressing style; this week, it’s a story on how Singaporeans hog electrical sockets at fast food chains, the drop in swimming standards among young swimmers and “If Google is making us stupid”. (By Jeremy Au Yong, Straits Times Life section, 12 July 2008. Based on original article by Nicolas Carr.

Put these together, and we sure sound like a bunch of lackadaisical, materialistic, disgruntled and complacent people.

For a country that wants to play host to international events like the F1 and the Youth Olympics, maintain a strong, righteous political reputation and balance the needs of its citizens with that of its macro goals, the fundamentals of its human fabric seems to be lagging far behind.

Excuses are given for the lack of social decorum. The Internet has contributed vastly to media liberalisation, variety programmes on local free-to-air and cable television offer plenty of style and dress tips, yet we have not appropriated such information to our presentation and would rather attribute it to the weather and geographical position of our country. It’s as if if the reason is something bigger and beyond our control, we are much more consoled into justifying our carelessness. (“I can’t help dressing like that because it’s too hot to wear anything else.”)

Hmm..even to the Esplanade Theatre?

It isn’t even about being the most fashionable, or the most glamorous city, because if we are not strong on the basics of dressing appropriately, it is unlikely that we’ll find the Paris or Milan styles localised. Perhaps some might find this rather prejudiced, because my profession enables me to receive expert advice on wardrobe pairings so it is easier said, but I have also seen many young people who make an effort, and have better sense of style than I do.

That is not to encourage willful and hefty spendings on fashion items because I do not advocate meretricious purchases. Beyond the embarrassing and somewhat superficial discussion on dressing, it is fundamentally about respect and social behaviour, not creativity or fashion idealism.

Then there’s the hogging of electrical sockets at public places. I can understand the need for study/discussion space away from office and home, but I am appalled to read that there are patrons who ignore the requests of others to share. Are we breeding citizens with pinhole perspectives who only care about themselves and what is convenient to them? Anything that requires circumvention or sacrifice is slapped with unhappiness, discontent and complaint?

But wait, it is not all that bleak. The idea that there’s a drop in swimming standards seem to suggest that there was a time it was at its peak.

Perhaps the objective of the NASSA test is flawed, because excelling in survival skills in the swimming pool does not equate to swimming proficiency, but excelling in swimming proficiency would mean the basic survival skills (to cope with swimming pool conditions at least) are in place.

After all, you can’t blame the candidates for merely meeting the requirements of the test while neglecting the proficiency aspect, because no one told them right?

And if you’ve actually made it this far with my arbitrary article, I guess there is a fallacy in Nicholas Carr’s argument.

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18 Comments»

  PV wrote @

:l and i thought google made us smarter, with access to infomation being just a click away? ;D the faster you get your info, the more you get to learn, surely? LOL.

  e wrote @

knowing more information does not mean you’re smarter….

sometimes, i wish i could unlearn.

  Trie wrote @

an insightful post that left me thinking hmm, great!
Cheers.

  ed. wrote @

how many times do u actually remember details of what you have googled? U use it for that particular instance, and at the back of ur head, know that if u need to know again, u’re just a google click away.

hence, it _can_ make u smarter. but more often than not, u became over reliant on it for information, that it becomes ur repository of facts; not ur brain anymore.

  PV wrote @

D; true, i guess more knowledgeable =/= smartness.

  teddi wrote @

some things.. we aint taught hw it should be frm the right of the beginning.. and when things isnt up to their ideal expectations.. they complains… never change..

  Jaslin wrote @

Hi Joanne,

Would like to ask which cameral model are you using? Like the effects of ur pics. Do drop me an email if possible. Thanks!

Seems like u are a rather emotional person from some of your entries..like the pics and captions taken at the Marina Bay Driving range.

  joannepeh wrote @

HI Jaslin,

Ricoh Caplio GX100. :)

Love,
Joanne

  melissa miss j0anne wrote @

hey joanne jie..beeen so long since i came here.been busy with prelim preparations! its starting on aug 4th.hmm..i really miss u lots.hope to mit up with you soon ok..take care..and do reply me either thru here or by my email k?
foreverfriendbear_cute@yahoo.com

Love,
Melissa Mei<3333s♥

  samanthaho wrote @

hi joanne,
may i know how did you do the banner on your blog?
thankyou,
samantha

  joannepeh wrote @

I used photoshop! :)

  just another stranger… wrote @

We’re arguing abt dress code….when poor pple out there in Africa have NOTHING to wear…? Maybe living in Singapore for too long has gotten us so self-absorbed with such pin-holed perspectives,making us complacent,materialistic,selfish and disgruntled. Which is why guys complain about serving NS in Singapore,while conscripts in Israel are really being killed in action.Which is why our soldiers complain about combat rations,when poor people out there have nothing to eat. Which is why people criticise the PAP when they would’ve been worst off under the Nazis or the old Soviet Union….the list of how much people can complain could go on….if only the people would realise how fortunate they already are…
So is anyone still gonna complain about Google,when there’s someone out there who can’t afford 3 meals a day,much less a computer,and even an education?

  WjLye wrote @

I dun mean to offend anyone.
But, i think if we were to compare the way ‘just another stranger’ compare, i believe all “complaints” anyone had made will not be valid anymore.
Comparison exists, it always does, that’s why complaints exist too. Comparison exists because the is a difference in standard of certain aspect. If we compare ourself with kids out there suffering in Africa, we are definitely more fortunate. But pls dun miss out the point that what we are talking is about basic dress code,which differ with the location and circumstances. Which from the examples in esplanade theather, i do think a formal dressing will definitely be more suitable. The complaint is not abt wearing expensive or wearing glamourous dressing anywhere. But i do believe that there is a certain dress code at some places which should be followed.
I really dun mean to offend anyone, but i just want to show my disagreement.
i believe Complaints or critics do make us improves, provided that the complaints and critics are true and valid. I’m not Singaporean so i dun think i should talk abt serving in NS and political matters.
But ” If google are making us stupid ” is a topic on the over-reliance on Google. If what we are talking is “complain about Google,when there’s someone out there who can’t afford 3 meals a day,much less a computer,and even an education” , i can’t help to point out the question, does the statement meant that we should wait till everyone can afford basic 3 meal, wait till everyone has a computer, then only we start discussing the problem on over-reliance on Google. Then, 1st world country should stop improving, should wait for 3rd world country to be equal in various aspect then only move on to improve, to continue in excelling ? Please, apparently that is impossible as human are constant comparing, constant improving, based on needs,based on complaints, based on criticisms…

Sorry, i really don’t mean to offend anyone. But really can’t help when these thoughts came up to me after reading comments, it’s hard to keep it in the heart. (i’m complaining abt keeping thoughts in my heart while someone out there is suffering from heart diseases :p )
Of all, in the end, i did realise how fortunate i am.

  LoveUrBlog wrote @

Hey Joanne,

To me, this article is kind of thought-provoking if not informative. Hmm u’re bold to voice your opinions on many issues and I agree with most of the things you said.

I guess S’pore is already an impressive country, a far cry from M’sia(my country). Anyway, I don’t see the need to be disgruntled or fussy about lil things too much. But of course, there’s only improvement when discontentment arises. This world has enough problems and things that make us feel uptight now & then. So for me, sometimes live & let live is the best policy.

Btw, how do u make the ‘ A Beautiful Life ‘ banner? So cool !!!

Lastly, 快快update ur blog lar, Joanne! Sry for being demanding, but truth be told, I like to read your blog!

  Eric S. wrote @

I must say I’m impressed with your Thought-Process on looking & observing things around you… So this is the real Joanne Peh!

This is going to be a regular place I’ll be visiting often from now…

Keep it up ya! :O)

  joannepeh wrote @

Hi Eric,

Thanks a lot for ur compliments, it’s not a blog that I update as regularly because I really need to be inspired to write. Sometimes I have a topic but I don’t have the time to sit down and string it into sentences, but really appreciate that u enjoy reading this. :)

Love,
Joanne

  irisg wrote @

love ur blog!

  liyin wrote @

>joanne mm,me 2.I dont even hav time to decorate my blog.Quite enjoy reading this.


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