Is being heart-broken the result of too much love, or reliance?
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grace wrote @
hey joanne, I dunno if you’re talking about yourself, but I am heartbroken now too. I guess when you love someone too much, you tend to be reliant, needy and vulnerable. When that someone tells you he doesn’t love you anymore, it is akin to subjecting your heart to all forms of torture – emotionally, physically and spiritually. Perhaps, perhaps this is what you would call a heart being tortured and broken.
ReNée wrote @
I think being heart-broken is the result of both. For me, loving someone is as much as trusting that person entirely. If you trust someone so much, you are bound to be very reliant on him or her. That is why i think heart-broken are caused by the two effects of emotions. I feel it all the time when i am down. =X
ade wrote @
Hi, heartbroken. to me is to find out that someone whom u admire, dont really love u…kind of like unrequited love…
Astro Galaxy wrote @
Heartbroken = when you are standing in front of the person and the person still can’t see you!
BL wrote @
Being heartbroken is when you have given too much and invested too much. Being heartbroken is when you have loved too much (in fact loved too much more than the other had loved you in return).
just another stranger… wrote @
I think pple feel heart broken when they are disappointed by someone they trust not to disappoint them,like when a father walks out of the family or when ur closest fren suddenly stabs u right smack in the back…it’s tt feeling of ‘u of all pple!’ I guess it’s cuz u’ll have high expectations on how pple would treat u,and when they fail to live up to it,it kinda comes crashing down….
sarahtoh wrote @
I agree with “just another stranger”. Expectation is the root of all heartache. Quoted it from somewhere, but i agree with the statement.
For me, it is the expectation upon other people, the one that we trust the most, the one that matters. Sometime, when we expect too much, and in the end, it turns out the other way around, i really feel like dying.
heartbroken, yes, i am.
i shouldn’t expect too much out of him.
i shouldn’t be so dishearten, he might not even realize what i am feeling now.
*sigh*, i need hugs. =’(
anyway, i hope you won’t face the same stuff as i am now. love ya.
*btw, have you heard about Yiruma, great pianist from S.Korea. (am trying it and loving it.) omg, should go to sleep now, it’s 2:59am. and i have lecture at 9am. =((
:) wrote @
Have u ever heard this term : Defrauding? … hmm.. Definition : To take something by fraud(deceit, trickery, sharp practice, or breach of confidence…)
Our hearts are deceitful, at times is hard to even tell what that is, that we are feeling specifically.
Heart-Broken : Is a stage when we feel this aching in our hearts cause by an external ’simulation’. This word talks about an OPEN heart which is wounded.
A good practice is always to guard your heart. Put a practical workable guard, can be friends who you trust, and be wary of people who defraud(who seemingly are charming & hence opens ur heart to certain emotions, yet these suchs are unable to fulfil what they have started.) … Cheers.
What are you further thots on ur 1 sentence post? Is difficult to put across such emotions on screen right? 
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